We've been socialized since birth to view everything in terms of "which is better, which is worse" and it's really difficult to unlearn that habit.
Anne More (she/her) is a certified sex geek and self-described "late poly bloomer" who didn't open up her relationship(s) until after the age of 50. Learn how she keeps the spark alive in two long distance relationships, and how learning more about her body and her sexuality changed her life. See her in person at… Continue reading Polyammering Podcast – Anne the Sex Geek (Episode 02)
Richard has a wife, a girlfriend, a not girlfriend, a high school sweetheart, and a formerly platonic girlfriend who's now a new girlfriend. Learn more about how he manages his time and energy with a hectic travel schedule to boot in this very first episode of the Polyammering Podcast.
It's a common misconception that in order for a mono person and non-mono person to make it work together, the bulk of the emotional labor falls to the mono person to "get over" the script that society had given them.