Phoebe Philips, (known as “Phi” to her friends) is a freelance blogger who initially gained popularity on FetLife as @phi-is-me. She writes a combination of smut, comedy, introspective essays and short stories on everything from kink, sex, and relationships to polyamory from the monogamous perspective to personal growth and politics.
In a past life, she wrote sex toy reviews and freelance articles for AVN Magazine as “Rosita del Rostro” and co-hosted a kink-related podcast. Phi’s blog was recognized as one of the Top 100 Sex blogs of 2016 (clocking in at number 27) by mollysdailykiss.com, and her erotica has been featured on kinkweekly.com, a weekly online magazine for the kink community. She has also been published on http://swingtowns.com/blog.
Described by at least one friend as “having a black belt in polyamory,” phi volunteers her time as an admin and moderator in several Facebook Groups dedicated to supporting those in the kink, polyamorous, or polyamorous-adjacent lifestyles. She also created “Monocorn Sanctuary,” a group specifically aimed to offer support to people who are monoamorous and dating a polyamorous partner.
As of 2018, Phi has begun working toward earning a credential as a certified relationship coach. She’s expected to complete the coursework in January 2019, when she plans to establish herself as a poly/kink friendly relationship coach with a concentration on helping people overcome some of the challenges found in mixed mono + poly relationships.
In her ample free time she enjoys cooking, binge-watching Star Trek (all iterations), and lavishing attention on her two cats. She’ll probably write a book someday.