I have a hard time with the term “brat.”  I also have a hard time observing “brats.” I’ve written about this issue before (on fetlife), but suffice it to say – “Brat” is a trigger for me.

But I’m not a pushover. I’m not a door mat.  And partners in the past have made the mistake of thinking that if I’m not one, I must be the other.

But, not this partner.  He gets it.