Coaching | Mentoring, Ethical Nonmonogamy | Polyamory, Kinkstuff, Love & Relationships

Does the flu shot cause insomina? and other middle-of-the-night musings

I want to do it again. I want to understand why last night my tolerance for pain was so high I couldn't feel any of it; where other nights the sting of a slap on the ass makes the walls turn white.

Coaching | Mentoring, Family Relationships, Self-Discovery

Coaching Files: Answering the intention and not the question

In which I learn to reframe a particularly rude and infuriating question that gets asked at every family function.

Coaching | Mentoring

Interested in coaching/mentoring?

Hi! I'm Phoebe Phillips - a blogger and essayist who specializes in non-traditional lovestyles. In 2019, I will graduate from an IFC certified course in professional coaching.  As a Certified Professional Coach, I am trained to coach people on any subject about any issue, but the niche and specialty I'm most interested in hanging up… Continue reading Interested in coaching/mentoring?

Coaching | Mentoring, Ethical Nonmonogamy | Polyamory, Love & Relationships, Memoirs, Self-Discovery

This is Forty

I can't fucking wait to see where this decade takes me.

Kinkstuff, Politics, Self-Discovery

Question 16: Do you have any concerns or worries about your community or your community involvement?

I think the community wants to change in the way that I want to lose weight. Like magic, and overnight, without actually having to sacrifice anything it enjoys or put in any long term effort into the hard work and sweat it's going to take to build a new set of habits.

Ethical Nonmonogamy | Polyamory, Self-Discovery

A New Chapter Begins

There's a little voice in my head that asks "Why do you feel like you have anything more/different to offer than anybody else who is already doing it?"