In which I learn to reframe a particularly rude and infuriating question that gets asked at every family function.
I can't fucking wait to see where this decade takes me.
Is marriage your destination, or just a potential stop on your great journey?
Being a woman has nothing to do with my anatomy or my hobbies or my sexuality or my talents.
We all suffer, in varying degrees and for different reasons - but we all suffer.
I was in a love-full and sex-less marriage. I don't remember the last time I had sex with my husband before he died, but I'd estimated it'd been at least three years, if not longer. When I started dating again...well, the first guy was poly and his partner wasn't comfortable with him having sex… Continue reading Sex-Specters, Orgasm Demons, and Jizz Sheets: An Evolution of my perceptions of other people’s sex lives and *my* space
Are you trying to make a change in your life? Acknowledged some bad habits and are doing the work to address their sources and make adjustments to overcome them? There's something that's not in the "self-improvement" manual that I think you should know. There are people in your periphery who are going to be hard-pressed… Continue reading Addendum to the self-improvement manual