He’s tall, works in finance, and loves cats.
Category: Love & Relationships
Hund’s Rule
He didn't deserve her light. She didn't deserve his darkness.
Wedding Crasher
When he got to the part where he was talking about how the bride was born to be submissive to her husband...my eyebrow was raised so high I think I might have earned airline mileage points.
What? No.
Our breakup is nearly old enough to vote.
An Essay About and Alternate Ending to “The Mindgasm”
In a funky figure-eight of codependent narcissism, I get nothing out of it if they get nothing out of it, and since I want something out of it, I will damn well ensure they get something out of it.
Frequently Answered Questions about my life with genital herpes (updated)
My period is more of a nuisance. It happens every month and has far worse side effects.
What Hurts? (A Fetlife Challenge)
The only pain I receive now is the pain I seek. The slaps, the bites, the scratching as rope is pulled taut across my skin. The kind of hurt that results in the indulgent satisfaction of surrender.
When words get weird
It used to be so easy to say "I love you." For more than a decade I could say it whenever I felt it, knowing it would be received well. And what did it mean, anyway? That I care. That their happiness is valued. That their sadness affects me. That I want good things for… Continue reading When words get weird
Refraction
There was no "there, there," with him. Just an "I'm here."
On holding a dominant to his own rules
That's not what I wanted, but it's what he thought was best and he was the Dom.
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