It was the first time I'd encountered Tony in a dream since his death that wasn't laced with fear, angst, anger, or disappointment.
Category: Ethical Nonmonogamy | Polyamory
Confession Time
And so began the little game where he's Peter Parker to the clown's Spiderman. He knows how to summon him. But he's totally not him.
I don’t wonder
And on this one in a billion moment when an arbitrary product of billions of years of evolution picked to be the start of just one of another billion years to come... You chose to be with me.
Thanks for your concern
But poly guys do not have the market cornered on inducing heartbreak.
“I just want everyone to be happy.”
I had a former partner experience both of his relationships crashing and burning while he attempted desperately to maintain that all he wanted was for "everyone to be happy." The problem was that in that particular set of relationships, there was no way for his two partners to be "happy" the way he wanted.  And there was… Continue reading “I just want everyone to be happy.”
My Monogamy is My Choice
I accepted that he is hard-wired for polyamory and he accepted that I am hard-wired for monogamy(ish).
When love is like a Netflix subscription
We're all subscribers with the same benefit, and as long as his servers (and our internet access) are up and running, we can all keep on streaming our individual relationships without much interruption.
So, how does it work? (more poly stuff)
If you haven't figured it out yet, there's someone special in my life. (Cue the fanfare) But, here's the fun part, he's someone special in more than just my life. That's right: Â phi, the poster child for monogamites everywhere, is dating a polyamorous guy. (womp womp) Soooooo.....once upon a time I wrote this about my… Continue reading So, how does it work? (more poly stuff)
Phi on Poly/Non-poly/Non-monogamy
I think monogamish is the heteroflexible of relationship structures.
polyammering 