Love & Relationships

There will be blood: When hormones affect emotions

people often mistake the hormonal amplification of a feeling as a sign the feeling has no merit at all, when it might be at the root of something that's been bubbling under the surface for a long time.

Coaching | Mentoring

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Hi! I'm Phoebe Phillips - a blogger and essayist who specializes in non-traditional lovestyles. In 2019, I will graduate from an IFC certified course in professional coaching.  As a Certified Professional Coach, I am trained to coach people on any subject about any issue, but the niche and specialty I'm most interested in hanging up… Continue reading Interested in coaching/mentoring?

Coaching | Mentoring, Ethical Nonmonogamy | Polyamory, Love & Relationships, Memoirs, Self-Discovery

This is Forty

I can't fucking wait to see where this decade takes me.

Kinkstuff, Politics, Self-Discovery

Question 16: Do you have any concerns or worries about your community or your community involvement?

I think the community wants to change in the way that I want to lose weight. Like magic, and overnight, without actually having to sacrifice anything it enjoys or put in any long term effort into the hard work and sweat it's going to take to build a new set of habits.

Kinkstuff, Love & Relationships, Memoirs, Self-Discovery

Experiencing “top space” through hedonism

...there were moments when my every move stopped being about what I thought would get him excited, and became purely about what was driving my own pleasure.