Was growing up a chubby, acne-ridden, braces-having, bad-perm-sporting, outsider part of what has formed my opinion on the meaning of beauty?
Phi on Poly/Non-poly/Non-monogamy
I think monogamish is the heteroflexible of relationship structures.
My Pro-Domme
She lulls me into the feeling of warmth and safety and then rips that rug out from under me in eye-watering pain.
Why I think you want to hurt me
...my body cannot lie when you strike me. It recoils. It shivers and squirms and my flesh reddens in protest.
How I imagine it happens from your side
You want to touch her, control her, and bring it to the brink of climax before pulling her away. You're in charge. You decide.
Responsible Smut
... I can tell you that when I write, you'll usually find it in there. The consent. The negotiation. The aftercare. I put them in my stories, or at the very least, I acknowledge when they are lacking.
Tale of Two Princes (and an empowered princess)
"...If she'd needed my help, she'd have asked for it."
Factions and Class
I came into this scene only knowing that my fantasies were not like other people's fantasies. I figured out how to make it work for me. I'm still figuring it out, and I think that's respectable.
Emotional Power Exchange
Because once I give consent, it gets very difficult for me to say the word "no." It becomes way too easy for someone to add to that emotional pain bank that I can withdraw from when I let my emotions top me back.
Schrodinger’s Baggage
There's that weird spot again, between being a mother and not. I've never given birth. I've never changed a diaper. But I know what it is to worry when your child has a need and you're in charge of providing for it.
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