I want to submit because I want to feel control again. Sounds weird, right? Usually people talk about submission as the idea of giving up control.
Tag: submission
Can you tell me how to get…
Clamps one and two were fastened to each nipple from the top; the chain lifted and inserted into her mouth where it was held between clenched teeth. Clamps three and four, also each attached to her nipples, but from the bottom. The chain lay resting against her belly. He hovered over her. A third chain… Continue reading Can you tell me how to get…
On Submission
Too often, the term "submissive" is thrown about as something that is below or beneath its dominant counterpart. I don't think that's how it works.
The Collar
I have lots of collars. Lots and lots and lots. They're accessories, though, like the many many rings i have and wear when I'm dressing up for a special occasion. But not like the rings I keep tucked in a special box in my jewelry drawer: my engagement and wedding rings. Those are different. Those… Continue reading The Collar
The Ask: Kinky Edition
Apparently I have a superpower: I can ask for what I want with minimal fear. It's not a super power, really. It might be why I'm well-suited for my job (asking people for large sums of money to fund a charitable organization). Here's the trick: I ask for things people pretty much want to give.… Continue reading The Ask: Kinky Edition
A lesser man would have used the word “brat”
I have a hard time with the term "brat." I also have a hard time observing "brats." I've written about this issue before (on fetlife), but suffice it to say - "Brat" is a trigger for me. But I'm not a pushover. I'm not a door mat. And partners in the past have made the… Continue reading A lesser man would have used the word “brat”
Dirty Thoughts
When I use the handle to wash out my cunt, I know how much of what I'm rinsing out is the slick wet remainder of every thought of you that crosses my mind.
Bring it On
She lingered her fingers over his nipples, down his side, over his hips, and and around his ass as she came back to the front and, with a light touch, ran them down his torso until they were encircling his cock, which was already showing signs of intrigue.
Dinner Party
If you've never had someone suck your cock like it was their calling in life to do so, then you won't understand what our guest experienced for the next twenty minutes.
Trust and Letting Go
"Letting go" for me means releasing control to some one else. Not just physically, but in a way, mentally and emotionally as well. Whether it's accessing subspace, rope space, orgasms, or (as I'll touch on in a bit) something much more deeply emotional - it all shares a similar quality.
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