People put little value to what’s free or “easy.”
Tag: relationships
What? No.
Our breakup is nearly old enough to vote.
An Essay About and Alternate Ending to “The Mindgasm”
In a funky figure-eight of codependent narcissism, I get nothing out of it if they get nothing out of it, and since I want something out of it, I will damn well ensure they get something out of it.
When words get weird
It used to be so easy to say "I love you." For more than a decade I could say it whenever I felt it, knowing it would be received well. And what did it mean, anyway? That I care. That their happiness is valued. That their sadness affects me. That I want good things for… Continue reading When words get weird
Can I need it?
"But as soon as I know it's an option, I start to want it. I know I don't need it, but I wonder....CanI need it?"
Investment
I once had a lover tell me to make him feel loved.
Phi on Poly/Non-poly/Non-monogamy
I think monogamish is the heteroflexible of relationship structures.
How I imagine it happens from your side
You want to touch her, control her, and bring it to the brink of climax before pulling her away. You're in charge. You decide.
Tale of Two Princes (and an empowered princess)
"...If she'd needed my help, she'd have asked for it."
Schrodinger’s Baggage
There's that weird spot again, between being a mother and not. I've never given birth. I've never changed a diaper. But I know what it is to worry when your child has a need and you're in charge of providing for it.
polyammering 