Had a really interesting discussion last night about what an awesome benefit it would be to have designated "aftercare" spaces in public dungeons. Not only would this benefit people who are still coming off the rush of an intense scene, it would also benefit those who find themselves in the socially awkward position of interrupting… Continue reading Fantasy Spaces: Dungeon Aftercare Zone
I have a hard time with the term "brat." I also have a hard time observing "brats." I've written about this issue before (on fetlife), but suffice it to say - "Brat" is a trigger for me. But I'm not a pushover. I'm not a door mat. And partners in the past have made the… Continue reading A lesser man would have used the word “brat”
It was the first time I'd encountered Tony in a dream since his death that wasn't laced with fear, angst, anger, or disappointment.
And so began the little game where he's Peter Parker to the clown's Spiderman. He knows how to summon him. But he's totally not him.
I wanted to fuck him, but I swear it was like his skull kept calling out to me. "Smash me! Smash me!"
The cool air caressed her nipple first, followed by his fingers.
When you find the source of your jealousy/insecurity, you can start doing the work to address why you behave the way you do.
Excuses piled on top of excuses wouldn't change the fact that their base-level word was not enough, and their promises were fragile at best.
If you haven't figured it out yet, there's someone special in my life. (Cue the fanfare) But, here's the fun part, he's someone special in more than just my life. That's right: phi, the poster child for monogamites everywhere, is dating a polyamorous guy. (womp womp) Soooooo.....once upon a time I wrote this about my… Continue reading So, how does it work? (more poly stuff)
This is all hypothetical and nothing to do with my current situation. It's the response to a few posts I've seen in the ether where I've chosen to keep my response private because the people involved in my current situation might misinterpret it to be about them. In this whole "Metamours' relationship with the primary"… Continue reading Excuse me, but you’re not *MY* primary
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