I accepted that he is hard-wired for polyamory and he accepted that I am hard-wired for monogamy(ish).
Tag: love
Are we there yet?
When I look back on my life, I can think of a few moments when I was "there" and managed to appreciate it.
When love is like a Netflix subscription
We're all subscribers with the same benefit, and as long as his servers (and our internet access) are up and running, we can all keep on streaming our individual relationships without much interruption.
So, how does it work? (more poly stuff)
If you haven't figured it out yet, there's someone special in my life. (Cue the fanfare) But, here's the fun part, he's someone special in more than just my life. That's right: phi, the poster child for monogamites everywhere, is dating a polyamorous guy. (womp womp) Soooooo.....once upon a time I wrote this about my… Continue reading So, how does it work? (more poly stuff)
Hund’s Rule
He didn't deserve her light. She didn't deserve his darkness.
Wedding Crasher
When he got to the part where he was talking about how the bride was born to be submissive to her husband...my eyebrow was raised so high I think I might have earned airline mileage points.
When words get weird
It used to be so easy to say "I love you." For more than a decade I could say it whenever I felt it, knowing it would be received well. And what did it mean, anyway? That I care. That their happiness is valued. That their sadness affects me. That I want good things for… Continue reading When words get weird
Refraction
There was no "there, there," with him. Just an "I'm here."
Vignettes in Perspective
The good girl never wins.
Investment
I once had a lover tell me to make him feel loved.
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