For you, I am not descended from the heavens but grown from the earth.
Category: Love & Relationships
From the secret archives: Love Letter
Though it may not be with words, we communicate mountains when our eyes meet for long, soulful, deep conversations.
Can you tell me how to get…
Clamps one and two were fastened to each nipple from the top; the chain lifted and inserted into her mouth where it was held between clenched teeth. Clamps three and four, also each attached to her nipples, but from the bottom. The chain lay resting against her belly. He hovered over her. A third chain… Continue reading Can you tell me how to get…
Wipe the Glass (Happy Birthday, Tony.)
He'd have been 55 today. I didn't want it to affect me, but I can't pretend it didn't. It's a really strange combination of emotions - knowing that I'm happier and healthier now, knowing that I've found love again and pulled my life back together and survived an incredible loss. And still feeling off on… Continue reading Wipe the Glass (Happy Birthday, Tony.)
9 things we rarely admit to loving
1. The first shit you take after anal. Come on. You know it's true. 2. Peegasms. I've mentioned these before and I know not everybody gets it, but for those of us who do - you know, that feeling you get when you gotta pee but you hold it in? It's like a little orgasm.… Continue reading 9 things we rarely admit to loving
9 “Minor” Annoyances
In the grand scheme of things, yes - these are minor annoyances. But they have power only when we think we're the ONLY ONES who suffer from them. So, I'm taking a risk and raising awareness of some of my minor annoyances so that I can feel solidarity with my sisters who've all potentially endured… Continue reading 9 “Minor” Annoyances
On Submission
Too often, the term "submissive" is thrown about as something that is below or beneath its dominant counterpart. I don't think that's how it works.
Quick poly analogy about “fairness”
"If you ate a cookie and my cookie fell on the floor in the middle of a New York City gutter, you have to find the nearest restroom facility and puke up your cookie."
Deconstructing the destruction: How Professor Snape and Lily Potter’s eyes can help you process your most recent breakup
I used to "fall in love" online every twenty-two minutes. That's an exaggeration, but suffice it to say that as a very young adult (and sometimes teenager) I would meet people online and start developing emotional attachments to them very quickly. It was easy to do this. I didn't know they snored. Or subscribed to… Continue reading Deconstructing the destruction: How Professor Snape and Lily Potter’s eyes can help you process your most recent breakup
My giddy teenager
I've written about "my little" before, but I'd stopped updating my index at that point and I can't remember what I titled it, so ... I dunno, it's somewhere in that mountain of writing. So is the metaphor of all of these different aspects of my personality being passengers on a "bus" that take their… Continue reading My giddy teenager
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