There is a metric fuckton of self work that has to go into successful polyamory, whether you're on the mono side or the poly side.
Category: Love & Relationships
Rules are Condoms: An Imperfect Metaphor
Try to make a rule that your partner will never develop feelings for a sexual partner and be prepared to find yourself on the business end of a Klingon pain stick.
Unexpected Possibilities
Is marriage your destination, or just a potential stop on your great journey?
Derwood
Don't be a Darren.
The Honesty Exchange (Revisited)
It looks a little bit like the symbol for recycling - not a one-for-one exchange, but symbiotic exchange running on a continuous loop.
Ninety Three Seconds
...maybe it's something I always do, the counting.
Seven: On the occasion of my wedding anniversary
I wonder, had this been a relay and not a reboot, if he'd been around to meet you, how he would have felt about this quirky situation of ours?
Cold Water
I stammered and resisted. He grabbed hold of my wrist and pulled me toward the shower door. I watched as he pushed the handle away from "hot" to "cold" and held me there.
The Play Partner Manifesto
I wouldn't (probably) mind more rope in my life, but I come back to that question of connection.
What being a woman means to me: A Writing Challenge
Being a woman has nothing to do with my anatomy or my hobbies or my sexuality or my talents.
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